Daily habit-building that creates lasting change.

NORM Rhythm is a daily practice for you and your relationships — a quick check-in, two small actions, and a clear look at the patterns you are working on. On iPhone and Android.

Download on the App Store Get it on Google Play

Free to download. The Pattern Finder, your reports and the daily check-in are free.

Every day

One loop a day. Everything else helps you see it and keep it.

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Today — your daily loop

Check in against the sentence you wrote about what you want to change, then do two short tasks — a lesson, a rehearsal, catching the pattern, a reflection. Your streak counts the days.

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14 free habit-building loops

Your first 14 loops include everything in Growth — no card, nothing to cancel. After that the daily loop keeps going, free, for as long as you want it.

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Quick Check-in

How are you right now? Four quick scales — mood, regulation, effort and grounding — whenever you want to log a moment.

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The Trigger Trainer

For the moment it is happening: say what is going on and how strong it is, get a script to work through, then note how it went — the new pattern, caught it mid-way, or the old one. Saved privately.

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Growth — progress & milestones

Your overall progress and the direction it is moving, the milestones you have reached, and your streak and badges.

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Reminders on your terms

Pick the time of your daily nudge, set quiet hours, and choose push, email or text.

See your patterns

Start with a free read of where you are, then watch what moves.

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Pattern Finder — free

A free assessment in nine short sets, saved as you go so you can stop and come back. Retake it monthly to see what has moved.

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Your Reports & Your Patterns

What the assessment found — your scores, your primary pattern and the areas to grow — with your retake history. Free; the trajectory chart across retakes is part of Pro.

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Catch It

Your pattern, one tap from Today, so you can recognise it when it shows up instead of afterwards.

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My Journey

Where your plan is heading: today's rhythm — catch it, change it, cement it — the road ahead, and your record so far.

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Emotional Trends

Your check-ins charted over weeks, so you can see what is shifting and not just how today feels. Pro.

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The couple view

Pair with your partner for free and see today's sync and what you are building together, while your own entries stay private to you. The full couple report is part of a paid plan.

Go deeper

Paid plans are bought on the web, never inside the app.

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Journal

A private journal that knows where you are in your plan. Pro.

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Habits, focus & growth challenges

Habit tracking, focus tools and growth challenges for working on the pattern you found. Pro.

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Your Contract

Turns a pattern into a plan: the old behaviour, the new one, its trigger and a daily micro-action — re-forming as you move. Part of Growth.

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Rooms

For Born Again Love members: walk the 5 C's journey together, with a prayer wall and a discussion board.

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Learning library

Courses and short lessons, plus everything your feed has sent you, kept for later.

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A person when you want one

Talk to a therapist or message your care team from inside the app when you want support beyond self-guided work.

Who this is for

NORM Rhythm is for adults who want to grow without a ten-step life overhaul.

It's especially useful if you're:

  • Burned out on journaling apps that don't tell you what to do next
  • In therapy and want daily practice between sessions
  • Rebuilding yourself after a relationship, career shift, or life transition
  • A coach or therapist exploring the NORM Rhythm framework for your own growth
Who this is for

Get NORM Rhythm

Start with the free Pattern Finder. Your first 14 habit-building loops include everything in Growth — no card, nothing to cancel. Your reports, the daily check-in and partner pairing stay free after that.

Download on the App Store Get it on Google Play

Prefer a browser? Start the Pattern Finder on the web — it is the same account, so your progress follows you into the app.

Common questions

Is NORM Rhythm therapy?

No. NORM Rhythm is coaching and self-growth support — not therapy or crisis care. It is not a substitute for therapy, psychiatric care, or medical advice. If you're in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 in the US, or your local emergency number.

What does it cost?

NORM Rhythm is free to download, and the Pattern Finder, your reports, the daily check-in and partner pairing are free. Your first 14 habit-building loops include Growth at no charge, with no card. Paid plans are bought on the web rather than through the app store, so you can cancel any time from your account. Current pricing for every plan is on the plans page.

Do I need to share my data with my partner?

No. Pairing is optional and your entries stay private to you. NORM Rhythm works as an individual practice and as a couple one — pairing with your partner and partner chat are on the free tier.

Is there an app just for couples?

Yes — Romancier, our sister app, is built for couples rather than for individual growth. NORM Rhythm works for couples too: pairing with your partner and partner chat are on the free tier.

I used to have Aligned. Is this the same app?

Yes. Aligned is now NORM Rhythm — same app, same account, same data. Update it from your app store and sign in as before.

How do I delete my account?

Open the app → Me → Delete Account. See our account-deletion page for full details on what's removed.

Joseph L. Follette, Jr. LMFT headshot

Joseph L. Follette, Jr. LMFT

Founder, NeuroSpire Labs & Lifestyle Therapy & Coaching

An ordained minister and licensed marriage and family therapist in practice since 1999, Joseph is the creator of the NORM model — Recognize, Rewire, Reinforce — a framework that turns emotional insight into lasting behavioral change. Through NeuroSpire Labs, he is building technology that makes relational rewiring accessible beyond the therapy room.

Verified by Psychology Today · Licensed by the State of Alabama (L214)
Voted one of the Three Best Rated marriage counselors in Huntsville, AL — five years running